Bulletproof romance

We all search for the same thing. Maybe some of us search for something more, others for something less. We all search for attention, affection, passion, sex, love, tears, smiles, honesty, commitment,  and whatever else you can think of. But in the end all that we all look for is a bulletproof romance: no flaws, no lies, no weaknesses and loads and loads of good, great feelings...

Some of us just quit when they realize that there's no such thing. Others spend their all lives working hard to make it bulletproof.

I once learned: nothing lasts forever; nothing's perfect!

Yet I'm one of those that spend their lives fighting and trying and losing and trying again amd fighting harder and falling faster...

You once said:"You're a lover, not a fighter!"

Why am I not both?